New server, new #introduction -- I'm still the same old calcifer or cal from hackers.town, but the castle has been rebuilt
Old nerd with a passion for resiliency and software/hardware in constrained environments (like #arduino, #esp32, and similar embedded systems). Also #queer, #polyamorous, and #autistic #dad
No patience for authoritarians, bigots, or bootlickers. Rights are for all people.
Aelrun Goette – „In einem Land, das es nicht mehr gibt“ (2022)
Aelrun Goette musste sich durchschlagen. Eigentlich immer. In der DDR durfte sie kein Abitur machen, statt dessen musste sie im Strafvollzug und der Psychiatrie arbeiten. Nach der Wende schlug sie sich als Model und Schauspielerin durch das Unterholz der Kunst. Das alles, um 33 Jahre nach dem Mauerfall einen der großartigsten deutschen Filme der letzten Jahre zu präsentieren. (ARD, Neu!)
Addendum: I did not only left behinde personal connections but I left behind my #queer community, my #goth community and my #kink community.
These are huge part of my identity, these communities make me strife. Leaving meta platform is now cutting ties again.
The Fediverse™ failed to welcome new communities, to welcome different ways of using it. Social networks are about community. We failed 
.
yeah #CSD #Freiburg Logo rockt übelst und liefert wieder :) - ich freu mich auf die #Sticker
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Liebste Gaymeinde
Wir präsentieren stolz das Motto für den diesjährigen CSD in Freiburg: „Fight for Unity“
Eure CSD Orga
#csdfreiburg #fightforunity #motto
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@strandcafe @freiburg @queerfreiburg
"Don't you ever feel lonely and jealous when your partner's out on a date and you're not?"
Haha, oh, my sweet summer child.
You underestimate what a treat it is to spend a night by myself, eating pizza bagels & watching Studio Ghibli, with absolutely no need to entertain anyone else.
Don't get me wrong -- I love my partners! But I love them a heck of a lot more when I get to be away from them sometimes.
Society expects us to live in each others' pockets, and to spend very little time alone. But for an introvert like me? Time all by myself, unobserved and unaccompanied, is an absolute necessity.
I love knowing that my more-extroverted partner is out getting their social needs met, while I'm having my delightful goblin-time.
Gestern war ich im Gespräch mit dem Vorstand eines der größten Schwulen Vereine in Deutschland und auch von ihm kam die Einschätzung dass "der Wind kälter wird" - womit er meinte: viele #queer Menschen fühlen sich deutlich bedrohter als früher. Mich als Beispiel: ich schminke mich gerade um als Drag-Nonne (SPI) auf einer Veranstaltung zu helfen. Füher wäre ich mit der U-Bahn zur Veranstaltung gefahren - heute nehme ich lieber das Taxi.
EDIT: MissyMag interessiert!
Hat zufällig jemand interesse, mit mir zusammen zum Missy magazin zu gehen und zu fragen ob wir für sie einen pixelfed account betreiben dürfen? Mit der Idee, einfach nur die Instagram posts zu kopieren.
Ziel wäre, dass die Missy Magazin Crew diesen Account bei Bedarf übernehmen kann, später.
Ich suche für diese Idee ein paar queerfeministisch interessierte Menschen, die lust haben sich dafür zu organisieren.
I think I need a large batch of queer transfeminist stickers. Spaces & environments I'm in, need to become more openly friendly…
Any recommendations for a good design? 
Hey all, i need urgent help affording my basic necessities, i live in an abusive and transphobic household and my family hates me, im unable to get a job to support myself and im very mentally ill, i need help affording my basics, please donate to help me. 
current goals:
food: 75$/75$
prescription glasses: 115$/250$
miscellaneous basics: 0$/100$
payment information:
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Hey all, i need urgent help affording my basic necessities, i live in an abusive and transphobic household and my family hates me, im unable to get a job to support myself and im very mentally ill, i need help affording my basics, please donate to help me.
current goals:
food: 75$/75$
prescription glasses: 115$/250$
miscellaneous basics: 0$/100$
payment information:
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Der Nach-der-Nachsorge-Post:
tldr.zerschnurrt.de/flucht-nach-vorn-part-4
#schwul #queer #notjustsad
Who does it hurt if a person
... asks to be called a different name?
... likes to wear different clothes?
... takes steps to feel more comfortable in their own skin?
Who does it hurt? No one.
Trans rights are human rights & the culture war is a distraction.
can someone please help a poor and abused trans woman afford her glasses so she can see better?
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 200$/200$
prescription glasses: 10$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
can someone please help a poor and abused trans woman afford her glasses so she can see better?
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 200$/200$
prescription glasses: 10$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Holy shit thank u kind person for the 200$!!!! so nice!!!!! can i reach my glasses goal too pls??
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 200$/200$
prescription glasses: 0$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Please donate, i need urgent help affording my basic necessities, i need money for hrt and glasses, i cannot afford these on my own, i live in an abusive and transphobic home and my family hates me, im transgender and unable to get a job and im very poor, please help!!!
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 0$/200$
prescription glasses: 0$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Please donate, i need urgent help affording my basic necessities, i need money for hrt and glasses, i cannot afford these on my own, i live in an abusive and transphobic home and my family hates me, im transgender and unable to get a job and im very poor, please help!!!
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 0$/200$
prescription glasses: 0$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Please donate, i need urgent help affording my basic necessities, i need money for hrt and glasses, i cannot afford these on my own, i live in an abusive and transphobic home and my family hates me, im transgender and unable to get a job and im very poor, please help!!!
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 0$/200$
prescription glasses: 0$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
Please donate, i need urgent help affording my basic necessities, i need money for hrt and glasses, i cannot afford these on my own, i live in an abusive and transphobic home and my family hates me, im transgender and unable to get a job and im very poor, please help!!!
**current goals:**
food: 75$/75$
hrt: 0$/200$
prescription glasses: 0$/250$
**payment information:**
cashapp: https://cash.app/vparagon
gofundme: https://gofund.me/034cef1a
cashapp referral (i make 5$): https://cash.app/app/QPL1BJF
monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2
